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Brick No82: Have you hit a brick wall?
By Matt Weston, Friday 16 July 2004
The biggest step to recovery
I don't know how it ever keeps tabs on its members . . . but
Alcoholics Anonymous claims to have over 2 million of them
(and over 100,000 groups in 150 countries).
You know the line: " My name is . . . my name is . . . Slim
Shady . . . and I'm an alcoholic. "
It works. It really works.
As Harvey Mackay puts it: " You can't solve a problem unless
you first admit you have one . . . AA has used that principle
as a starting point to reclaim thousands and thousands of
lives. "
Once you admit to your problem, you've taken the first, and
biggest step to recovery.
And you can apply the exact same philosophy to your small
business every time you hit a brick wall . . .
Have you hit a brick wall?
I get a lot of mail that starts like this: " Dear Matt, I've
hit a brick wall . . . " (Yup, yet another play on the word
brick. I like it.)
Usually the mail starts off desperate.
You describe your brick wall: your working day is getting
longer and longer, but you're getting less done; you can't
make your breakthrough sale; or you don't feel you can
motivate your staff anymore.
But almost always, by the end of the email, you start to get
to the root cause of the problem . . . and even start to
offer up your own solution.
Just admitting you have a problem is the first step on the
road to solving it.
For most of us (I include myself here) our gut reaction is to
bury our heads in the sand. Most entrepreneurs find it hard
to (a) admit we have a problem and (b) cry out for help.
My advice couldn't be simpler: the sooner you admit that
you've hit a brick wall, the sooner you can get to work on
knocking it down.
Unstuck
Footnote #1: Keith Yamashita and Sandra Spataro recently
published "Unstuck". It echoes what I'm saying today:
stuck equals brick wall.
They say this: " Often people get stuck because the most
ambitious and rewarding work brings with it the most
challenges . . . the question is, how long can you afford
to be stuck and what are you going to do about it? "
Buy "Unstuck" or browse the website
BB equals AA?
Footnote #2: You can draw a straight line between Alcoholics
Anonymous and business bricks!
AA was started-up by a New York stockbroker and an Ohio
surgeon (both hopeless drunks) back in 1935. And BB was
started-up by Emyr and myself (both entrepreneurs . . . see
About Us)
I got this from the AA website: " . . . an alcoholic who no
longer drinks has an exceptional faculty for reaching and
helping an uncontrolled drinker. "
The AA message spreads through autonomous groups around the
world, where recovered and uncontrolled drinkers meet up to
help each other cope with the condition.
And the BB message spreads through reader meet-ups: the
chance to network, and start sharing those brick walls with
other people in exactly the same boat as you.
Remember to sign up: back to top
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